Parent to Parent Blog Entries

  1. Ways to Manage Mouth Sores

    Soft foods like soup and oatmeal which are served lukewarm are easy to eat and swallow.

    Mouth sores. These painful little cuts or ulcers in the mouth can certainly make life miserable. In fact, eating, drinking and even speaking can become very difficult. While there currently isn’t any guaranteed way to prevent them, the good news is there are ways to reduce your child’s risk of getting them. In addition, there are ways to control and manage mouth sores if your child does in fact have them.

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  2. Bust Pediatric Cancer Patients’ Boredom

    By Les Friedman, Mikey’s dad
    Boredom is part of pediatric cancer patient treatment

    Boredom – of all the side effects related to pediatric cancer patients’ treatment, boredom is probably not high on the worry list. But for kids, boredom and loneliness can significantly add to the struggles they face every day trying to cope with their treatment. To them, hospitals can feel like a whole lot of waiting around. And on days when they are feeling a little better, the boredom can be excruciating.

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  3. Your Child has Cancer – Accept Help

    Fifty Ways People Can Help

    by Les Friedman, Mikey’s dad

    When your child has cancer, his life is turned upside down and your entire family is catapulted into a new world.  What was once manageable becomes challenging. Mowing the lawn, getting dinner on the table, changing oil in your car or walking the dog – there’s just not a lot of time for these things. Accepting help from other’s is difficult for many of us. But when your child has cancer, it is time to accept help wherever you can.

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  4. Pediatric Cancer Financial Toxicity

    Pediatric Cancer patient with IV poleFinancial Toxicity of a Pediatric Cancer Diagnosis

    by Les Friedman, Mikey’s dad

    Treating pediatric cancer is expensive. Rising medical costs wreak havoc on a family’s finances and, in time, become yet another toxic side effect of cancer treatment.

    Medical bills quickly fill our mailboxes as costs mount for hospital stays, clinic visits, medicines, tests and surgeries. In addition, unexpected costs for procedures or treatments for infections, dehydration or pain can add to rising costs. read more →

  5. How to Cope When Your Child is Diagnosed with Cancer

    Suggestions for ways to cope and stay strong

    By Les Friedman, Mikey’s dad

    When Your Child is Diagnosed With Cancer
    When your child is diagnosed with cancer, it has a stressful and inescapable impact on the entire family system. Every family member, including parents and healthy siblings, feel the profound effect of this diagnosis. read more →

  6. Just Goggle It – the internet is it friend or foe?

    The internet – our best friend or worst enemy?

    by Les Friedman, Mikey’s dad

    “Just Google it!” It’s part of our everyday language but the truth is, the internet can be our best friend or our worst enemy particularly when it comes to medical information.

    Pediatric cancer is like a finger print – every cancer is different and every child reacts differently to treatment. What you read on the internet may be totally wrong for your child’s situation. read more →

  7. What I’d Tell A Parent Whose Child Has Been Diagnosed With Cancer.

    Your role is to be your child’s voice.

    by Les Friedman, Mikey’s Dad

    When your child is diagnosed with cancer, you have to be his/her advocate. As a parent, your insight and intimate knowledge of your child are what make you the best possible advocate for him/her. Your role is to be your child’s voice.

    There’s a certain number of children on the floor when your child’s in the hospital. Every child has needs and it’s not always easy to get what your child needs when your child needs it. I learned quickly that being a “squeaky wheel” is what got results. I asked, I nagged, I pushed –  I did whatever it took to get what Mikey needed when he needed it. read more →

  8. What I Learned From My Child’s Battle With Cancer

    When your child’s life is on the line everything else pales in comparison.

    by Les Friedman, Mikey’s Dad

    When Mikey was diagnosed with cancer, our world as we knew it stopped. Life became doctor appointments, the side effects of chemo, and the ever-looming possibility of an unexpected hospital admission. Meanwhile, regular life also marched on and what we considered normal became something else entirely. read more →